12 Tips to Make 69 Position an Awesome Experience
by James Buzinko
You would be pretty hard-pressed to find anybody in the world that didn’t love
a little oral sex every once in a while. The traditional 69 can be a lot of fun in
However after a while you’re just kind of pounding away and things have a way
of becoming routine. Luckily, using our tips and tricks we share with you
below, you’ll never have to worry about anyone accusing you of being a bit
“old hat” dude.
So let’s get down to business!
Tip #12 – Maintain Proper Hygiene
This should be a rule for pretty much any sexual activity!
There will be times when you just want each other regardless of how sweaty, dirty, or
messy both of you are. However, our first rule is the most essential when it comes to
Extra advice: If you want to have oral intercourse more than twice a year, you have to
keep yourself clean!
Tip #11 – Always Give More Than You Receive!
We guys always have a tendency to kind of sit back and enjoy the show! The fact is
that if you will do this she will not be very satisfied by this position!
So buckle up fellas, and learn from someone that has actually had a lady tell him that
they better start to get some action or they’d begin using their teeth.
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Tip #10 – Set The Rules of Control
Though almost all 69 action starts with the guy on their back and the lady on top of
them, some people (that share similar body types) have no trouble whatsoever
“flipping the script” and taking the opposite approach.
If it’s comfortable for both of you, the person that wants to dictate the pace and
pressure of the 69 oral sex should always be on top – and then you should follow his
or her lead.
Tip #9 – Use a Pillow as Support!
The last thing that you want to do during 69 is stress and strain your neck. Therefore,
make sure that you have a pillow right underneath your head if you’re on the bottom.
Thanks to this your neck will be supported and you will be able to really get into the
action! What is more, you can use it not only for cunnilingus but even when trying to
hit her g-spot during typical intercourse in a missionary position.
Tip #8 – Use Both Your Hands for Extra Stimulation
One of the biggest problems that people face when it comes to 69 (especially those
who do not have a lot of experience with oral sex) is that they always forget they have
They just try to do all the work with their mouths!
While this effort is always appreciated, using your fingers to mix things up can really
start to change the experience in an instant! You can wander around her body,
stimulate her erogenous zones, or you can even try to stimulate her anus if she is into
this type of “game”.
Tip #7 – Keep Space & Go on All Fours!
Usually, people end up right on top of one another during their first 69s. However, you
do not have to do so to make this position actually work!
In fact, you might even find it more comfortable to have the person on top remain on
all fours, allowing for more space and less heat transfer at the same time! So
experiment with each position to discover what you like better!
Tip #6 – Take Your Time & Be Focused
The only thing worse than never getting any oral sex is having somebody “go through
the motions”, just trying to get a job done so you can start hammering away at one
Believe me when I say that this behavior is going to go noticed and it will ruin the
mood – if it doesn’t derail the whole 69 entirely!
Keep in mind: If you want to be this position a frequent part of your sex life, stay
present, focused and give it always your best shot!
Tip #5 – Try It on Your Side
Though there aren’t too many “variations” of the good old-fashioned 69, it is pretty
much “what you see is what you get” deal. However, lying on your side can mix
things up just enough that it can get a little bit more interesting.
Obviously, you will lose the use of one of your hands – but trust me that it can still be
a lot of fun!
Tip #4 – Let Your Tongue Wander Around
If you are really hitting a groove (and your partner is responding well), then obviously
you do not want to change things up to get them off track, especially if they’re about
to achieve orgasm!
However, you should not be afraid of wandering around from his or her genitals to
other areas of the body while kissing and licking them lightly.
It’s easy, it’s awesome, it’s fun. Simple as that folks, simple as that!
Tip #3 – Change Your Pace Often
Remember that you are not dealing with a lollipop or Popsicle. Therefore, you should
mix it all up, especially, the:
- Pace at which you give oral sex!
- Pressure and suction that you are applying!
- Cadence that you’re working with!
My advice: Try to mix things up so that you are creating a unique experience each and
Tip #2 – Your Partner Needs to Be Cool with This Position
There are some people out there that just don’t like giving oral. However, they’re not
too terribly shy about getting it as much as they can.
You’re going to need to communicate with your partner and make sure that you are
both on the same page sexually, or one of you is going to have an absolutely terrible
time – which means that in the end, both of you are going to have bad experience
from this position!
Tip #1 – Just Have Fun with It
Focusing only on the tips and tricks above to picture-perfect 69 is really going to
prevent you from living in the moment!
Just have fun with it. After all, we are talking about sex here! If you’re not enjoying
yourself, then what’s the point?
This position can be an amazing wild ride, or it can also become a nightmare if you do
not follow basic rules!
Remember: Then again, sex is like a pizza. Great pizza is awesome, but even bad one
is still pretty damn good!
Reprinted with permission